As parents, we’ve all been there — asking "What did you do at school today?" and getting nothing more than a shrug or a mumbled "I don’t know." It’s frustrating, especially when you know your child has had a full day of learning and exploration.

At Ivy Greene Academy, we encourage learners to take ownership of their learning — but that doesn’t mean they’ll always know how to share their experiences. The key is asking the right kinds of questions — ones that help them reflect and engage, rather than giving a quick yes or no answer.

Instead of asking broad questions like "How was your day?" try asking something more specific:

• ✅ "What was the hardest challenge you faced today?"

• ✅ "Did you help someone today? How did that feel?"

• ✅ "What mistake did you make that taught you something?"

• ✅ "What question did you ask your guide today?"

These types of questions require more than a one-word answer. They prompt your learner to process the day, reflect on their choices, and engage with you in a meaningful conversation.

It’s also important to stay patient. If your learner gives a short answer, gently encourage them with follow-ups like, "Tell me more about that," or "What happened next?" The goal isn’t to force a conversation but to create a safe space where they feel comfortable sharing.

Why does this matter?
Having meaningful conversations about school helps build trust and connection between you and your learner. When children feel heard and valued, they open up more, leading to stronger relationships and better communication at home. These conversations become moments of bonding — not just about school, but about life.

This practice helps learners develop self-awareness and confidence — they learn to think critically about their own experiences and communicate more effectively. Over time, these conversations will help strengthen your relationship with your learner and give you valuable insight into their growth.

👉 Challenge: Try asking one of these questions tonight at dinner. Notice how your learner responds and adjust as needed.

Curious about how a learner-driven approach could transform your child’s confidence? Discover more at ivygreeneacademy.com.