NOT SHAKEN, NOT STIRRED: MY NEW MINDSET AS A PARENT

I drink up the Acton Academy demonstrations and experiences we deliver to the Eagles for my own learning.

This one, in particular, refreshes my mind:

  • Glass of water.
  • Pour in sand.
  • Shake up.
  • See how murky it has become. Unsettled. Chaotic.
  • Wait.
  • Let it sit.
  • With stillness, the sand settles.
  • Clarity.

The Socratic discussion then ensues and the children talk about what it feels like when their minds and emotions are stirred up and things get confusing and cloudy. They remember they have a simple tool : stillness. They can breathe deeply. And await their inner calmness.

This is my reminder as a parent: Stop being reactive. When I get stirred up, my life and the dear lives around me get foggy and dark,. Be still.

When things in their lives go wrong, my children need me to be wise and quiet – not upset, stressed, reactive, emotional.

My children need me to let my inner sand settle.

They need me to be their cool, clear drink of water.

More Posts

Private School in Pontotoc, Modern School in Pontotoc, Elementary School in Pontotoc, High School in Pontotoc, Montessori School in Pontotoc, Ivy Greene Pontotoc Mississippi

Fall Semester

Ivy Greene's Fall Semester begins August 24! We are so excited to begin our second year!

Read More

Subscribe and follow our adventures!

Private School in Pontotoc, Modern School in Pontotoc, Elementary School in Pontotoc, High School in Pontotoc, Montessori School in Pontotoc, Ivy Greene Pontotoc Mississippi

Thank you for your interest in Ivy Greene: An Acton Academy! You are embarking on an exciting journey, learning more about how Acton is revolutionizing education.  Let us know where to send the Info Kit and we’re happy to send it to you right away.

Donna Akers

Founder

Don’t just give your child an education. Help them find their calling in life.

Get Your Free Info Kit Today!

Accepting Applications for the fall of 2022.